|Simply put a date is ‘boy meets girl’. You are alone with the man you hope will be the father of your children. Is he going to call you the next day to ask for another night out? Will he finally fall on one knee and ask you to marry him? Here are some tips on what to do to get called the next day.
|•Dress in a way that makes you feel sexy and also flatters your figure. Leave the stilettos home they do not look good on some women. Red is almost always a good color. Try a red slinky dress and comfortable undergarments. Those torture devices some women use to suck in the stomach look great under the dress but are not sexy at all when you are trying to take them off.•Pay attention to what your date has to say. Yes you can talk about yourself but a man finds it really refreshing when a woman allows him to speak and be listened to.•Don’t talk about your ex. If he asks, keep it short and sweet. You are starting fresh with this guy. No need to bring in the ghost of past relationships. You are perfect to him in the beginning. There is no reason to make him wonder if the last guy who left you was right.•Wear a light attractive scent. This means layering scents. Bathe in scented bath oils first. Then apply a light powder in the same scent. Finally spray the same scented perfume in front of you and walk into the mist. Do this about 45 minutes before you see him. If you overpower him with your scent, instead of wanting to come closer to you he will be running for the nearest exit.•If you bring him back to your place make sure it is dimly lit. Soft lighting minimizes lines and wrinkles and gives your skin a bit of a glow. Keep candles handy or lamps that have adjustable lighting. In soft lighting you can be his dream woman and you can feel a thousand times better about undressing in front of him.•Do a strip tease for him. Now I am not talking about a ten-dollar hooker strip tease. I mean a slow undressing. Have him lie on the bed to watch, as you slowly undress: your undies, your stockings and finally your shoes. Make him wait a bit.•Explore his body in detail. Most women just lie there and let the guy do all the work. Participate but don’t be controlling, and you have just blown past most of the women he has had sex with.•The contemporary view is that there are no hard and fast rules on whether you should have sex with your date on the first night out. It is your judgment call based on your reading of hints he might have dropped during the course of the night on whether he is one who will stay around, or in search of a one-night-stand. Importantly, before you allow your date to enter your bedroom, check his background by talking with his friends and relatives if you know them, and be sure that he is really who he says he is.
Posted by Ben Aidoo